A colleague of mine once told me that her partner asked her to stimulate his balls by licking and sucking, but she declined, thinking that was a weird request.
I told her that it is actually a thing and there’s nothing with it as long as that area is clean and she is sure of his STD status.
As I like to point out all the time, we are all wired differently with different desires and kinks; the trick is to find someone who is wired the way you are so you both can enjoy all the pleasures you seek.
Yes, sucking and licking of the testicles can be quite pleasurable for some men. It is a form of oral play. A little ball-sucking can give so much excitement that it drives some men very close to orgasm and a few lucky ones can even climax from ball-sucking alone. It has been proven that it is possible for a man to orgasm from testicular stimulation, though it is rare.
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Things to note before sucking your partner’s balls:
It is crucial to note that you can never assume that your partner wants their balls in your mouth just because they are male. Some men have very sensitive balls, and their partners avoid them. Needless to say, consent is key. Your partner has to be into that kind of kinky stuff before you can proceed to pleasure them that way.
1. Understanding anatomy and sensitivity
Connection to Pleasure: Many find that stimulating the balls can enhance overall sexual pleasure and lead to more intense orgasms.
2. Enhancing intimacy
Bonding Experience: Engaging in oral activities can strengthen emotional and physical intimacy between partners.
– Trust and vulnerability: This act requires a level of trust and vulnerability that can help deepen your connection.
3. Variety in sexual practices
– Exploring preferences: Trying different forms of stimulation can help partners discover what they enjoy most.
– Breaking routine: Incorporating this practice can add excitement and novelty to your sexual experiences. Sex can get boring and monotonous, especially with partners in long-term relationships
– Add toys
Did you know that there are toys made specifically for testicular stimulation? Once you and your partner know that they enjoy testicle play, it may be a good idea to invest in a toy or vibrator: testicle vibrators or cock rings are a good choice.
4. Communication is key
– Discussing desires: Open communication about preferences can enhance sexual satisfaction for both partners.
– Feedback loop: Listening to your partner’s responses and adjusting techniques can improve the experience.
5. Psychological aspects
– Power dynamics: This act can play into fantasies of submission and dominance, adding a psychological layer to intimacy.
– Ego boost: Many partners may feel more desired and validated when receiving this kind of attention.
6. Techniques and tips
– Gentle touch: Start slowly and gauge your partner’s reactions.
– Incorporate other areas: Combine stimulation of the balls with other parts of the body for a more comprehensive experience.
7. Health and hygiene
– Importance of cleanliness: Discussing hygiene beforehand can make both partners feel more comfortable.
– Safe practices: Understanding and practicing safe sex is crucial in any intimate act.
How to suck the balls/testicles
Testicle or Ball sucking can cover a number of mouth-to-scrotum activities (the scrotum being the sack of skin containing the testes). Except for the biting, chewing, and swallowing, it could be likened to eating a lollipop: a sucker might put her/his mouth around one or both of a partner’s balls, licking, tugging, and even nibbling in a way that’s pleasurable to all involved. Because the genitalia are full of sensitive nerves and tissue, testicle tasting and other oral sex entrees need to be done with care and clear communication.
Sucking and tongue action can be combined with hot breaths, as well as blowing cool streams of air, which can provide additional sensation and drying. Alternating from one ball to the other can also suffice as some men may feel more sensation in one testicle versus the other. It’s also common for one testicle to hang down further than the other, so this, too, might dictate which side gets sucked. And because temperature affects how high or low the “fruit” will hang, testicle-sucking sessions may vary in look and feel.
Shifting the focus for a minute to the sucker, who might have a one or two ball preference. This could be determined by the pleasure, or lack thereof, felt from a “full mouth” and/or the need for more breathing room. As with other sexual play involving the mouth, stray pubic hair can also be on the menu; for those who find this natural occurrence distasteful, a quick rinse and spit with water should do the trick. Some men and women shave some or all of their pubic hair to prevent hair loss during sex, among other things.
Benefits of ball/testicle play
Playing with your partner’s testicles may be quite pleasurable but ball stimulation may also offer some health benefits, too. While it is the testes’ job to produce sperm, stimulating them may boost the production of the male reproductive cell. In essence, ball stimulation can promote ejaculatory production.
Stimulating the testicles can also improve blood circulation to the region. It may also help discover and identify any abnormalities in the partner’s parts, like lumps and swelling that could indicate something is wrong.
In conclusion, engaging in acts such as licking your partner’s balls can enhance pleasure, intimacy, and connection when approached with care, communication, and mutual consent. Exploring each other’s bodies is a natural part of a healthy sexual relationship, and finding what works for both partners can lead to fulfilling experiences.
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