Here I am, alone in my aloneness, thinking of what I would do if only I had someone’s son beside me. As I was plotting and imagining the scenes in my head, I could feel the heat mounting.
My fantasies carrying me to a whole new world…where only the scenarios in my mind exist…not for long. I was suddenly jolted back to reality with the persistent ringing of my phone.
As I promptly attended to the call, my mind drifted back to the fantasies playing in my head. Make no mistake, my fantasies are sexual.
Sex is meant to be fun, so there’s nothing wrong in adding a little spice just for that purpose.
Yes, Sex can spark up many complicated feelings. Even the most sex-positive folks can find themselves feeling confused and uncertain about their fantasies, but in most cases it is absolutely normal.
Sexual fantasies come in different shapes and sizes, that’s why it’s important to have a discussion with your partner and agree before anything.
A fantasy for some may be bringing sex toys to the bedroom for added fun, while for someone else it could involve some kinky stuff like using handcuffs, blindfolds, leather lingerie, etc, and some others may take it to a whole new level by dressing up as different characters and role-playing.
Regardless of whatever it may be for you, exploring sexual fantasies is a great way to take the monotony out of your normal day-to-day sex and spice things up.
For those looking for ideas, here are a few:
i. A happy ending massage. Having a massage can be very relaxing. So what better way to end it than with an orgasm.
ii. Multi-partner sex. This involves sex with more than one partner of the same or different genders. Sex with three partners may be called a threesome and more may be called an orgy. Studies have shown that men specifically fantasise more about multi-partner sex, while women’s fantasies were more likely to include same-sex partners and famous people.
iii. Rough sex: It’s a sexual act that is aggressive, raw, and, perhaps somewhat violent. It is often said to be more passionate than other kinds of sex, but can also be associated with unhealthy, abusive sex. Though, rough is not inherently dangerous or abusive.
iv. Other sexual fantasies include public sex, role play, and voyeurism.
Whatever fantasies you find pleasurable, by all means indulge, but not without the consent of your partner.
Meanwhile, I am still here fantasizing about what I will do to someone’s son when I eventually set my eyes on him.
Have fun.
#tiwa_says.