Let’s get one thing straight: There’s no age limit for sex. If you still get the urge and you are strong enough, please indulge and enjoy. We all are sexual beings and sex is one of those things that make us feel alive.
Sex is vital for the body, soul and mind. Even the doctor recommends it because it has a relaxing effect on the body.
It reduces stress, inspires the mind and regenerates cells.
So, I see no reason why this experience should decline or stop as age increases. It’s a cliche that “the older you are, the less sex you have” and a false one at that. People in their middle ages may not talk about sex, but it doesn’t mean they don’t crave or have it.
It has been proven from research that women above 40 crave and enjoy sex more than younger women. This is because at this age they are more comfortable with their bodies and know how it works.
It’s a given that physical changes that come with ageing may affect the kind and amount of sex one has, but you can work around these changes to suit you.
Here a a few tips
Try new things: There are lots of ways to experience sexual pleasure as you age. Keep trying new things. It doesn’t have to be penetrative sex all of the time.
Make the lube your friend: For the woman, as she gets older, she may experience dryness because of hormonal changes. It’s important to keep the artificial lubrication handy.
Explore sex toys: Let’s not kid ourselves, some toys can take you to unbelievable heights of pleasure and that’s not a bad thing. It’s something that couples can enjoy together.
Be spontaneous: Please trash that timetable, whether physical or in your head. Sex is not meant to be scheduled. Surprise your partner with quickies at different places besides the bedroom…let’s keep the excitement going.
Be open about your sexual issues: Don’t be shy or afraid to discuss your sexual difficulties with your partner. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. Your partner can only help if she/he is aware of the problem. Explore the options available to keep you active in the bedroom.
Above all, at this age, you shouldn’t allow inhibitions of any kind to hold you back. If it gives you pleasure and it’s not in violation of the other person, enjoy yourself.
For more ideas for fun and enquiries about our Game Night, which holds on Friday, March 11, 2022, feel free to contact me.
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