The holiday season is upon us, whether we like it or not. As much as a lot of people are grateful for some well-deserved time off work and spending quality time with family and friends, the economy of the country is not making it easy to be in a celebratory mood.
Being alive with a roof over your head, clothing on your back and food on your table are enough reasons to celebrate.
It is important to prioritise moments over physical things this season. What matters the most and that which will last is laughter shared, words said, and actions that make impact.
Still, the holiday season is not only a time to connect and bond with family and friends, but it’s also a great time to spice things up in the bedroom. If you are like me who gets easily bored, trying out new things is always a good idea.
Here are a few fun tips:
1. Be spontaneous: Don’t wait to get to the bedroom before you have some fun. Get down to it wherever you feel the urge. Waiting may kill the mood. The risk of being caught adds to the fun…besides quickies are so “sweet”.
- Do it in someone else’s house: This may seem disrespectful or awkward, but there’s nothing more exciting than doing something you feel you shouldn’t be doing. Have a quickie in the restroom of a restaurant or at a friend’s house where you have been invited to dinner.
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Nude cooking: If you are home alone with your partner, you can prepare dinner in the nude with just an apron wrapped around you and your heels on. Bend over a lot to add to the effect…picking something off the floor or checking what’s in the oven.
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Bring the dessert into the bedroom and lick it off of one another: Sweeter foods like chocolate, honey or whipped cream are known to excite the pleasure centres in the body along with the senses.
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Some holiday-themed role-play could be very exciting: This is the best time of year to play dress up. You or your partner can dress up as Santa-bearing gifts. You can try other roles that tickle your fancy.
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Try some kink: Make missionary more pleasurable by incorporating some kinkiness to it…tying the hands of your partner and blindfolding her or any combination that suits you is sure to get things going in the right direction. It can be a huge turn-on.
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Shower sex: This is an all-time favourite. You can decide to make it the typical quickie or a marathon… it’s up to you. This is not only pleasurable, it is very therapeutic. The running water can provide some noise coverage, and no one is likely to barge in. You should lock the door…nonetheless.
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Exploit sex toys: Don’t have regular sex this holiday season. Invest in some sex toys…some are quite pocket friendly. The addition of sex toys to your bedroom fun gives you more options and more intense orgasms.
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Don’t forget to eat lots of fruit: For the ladies, fruits like strawberry, pineapple and kiwi help to improve your “taste” when he goes down on you. Strawberries are specially packed with zinc that makes testosterone that can activate your inner temptress.
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Watch an X-rated movie together: Watching porn or reading erotica together is a good way to start you on your way to some very steamy sex.
Whatever you do, don’t stick to your normal sex routine this holiday. Get out of your comfort zone and explore…you never know until you try.
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