You all know I’m a firm believer in sexual freedom and pleasure. I like to find ways to make the experience memorable and more fun.
To this end, it is only fair that I let you in on some secrets that can make that happen.
Let’s start with:
1. Communicate your needs: Be open about your wants, needs, likes and dislikes. Your partner is not a mind reader, so the more comfortable you are talking about sex, the better your experience.
- Kissing: Romantic kissing gets your love hormones flowing. The lips are an incredible erogenous zone. Touching lips and tongues can enhance the bond with your partner.
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Embrace self-pleasure: free yourself of judgements and inhibition and explore your body. Masturbation helps you to know and understand your body better. Studies have shown that self-touch can increase feelings of confidence and self-esteem about your body, and this makes it easier to take responsibility for your orgasm.
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Get kinky: Kinky sex and all other fetishes are nothing to be ashamed of. It is normal to have desires and being open about it will make you a satisfied partner.
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Learn to receive: Even if you have a partner who knows all the ways to please you and has all the energy, but you have accepted in your mind that you are only allowed a certain amount of bliss, you may intentionally be limiting your capacity for pleasure.
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Talk dirty: Sex talk helps to stimulate your partner’s major organs. Use your imagination and voice all of your dirty desires, it makes the experience adventurous and more enjoyable.
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Guys! Stop the jabbing: The vagina is a warm and gentle place that requires gentle strokes and caresses. A woman likes her man to rub her gently and turn her on without leaving marks and scratches on/in her honey pot.
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It’s all in the brain: The brain is the centre of command in every sexual experience. It is responsible for releasing the hormones necessary for the body to prepare for sex, but when the mind is clouded, intercourse becomes difficult. Releasing the mind and becoming one with the body before sex is important for optimal sexual performance and pleasure.
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Embrace your natural smell: This is for the ladies. Your honey pot’s natural aroma is perfect, don’t try to change that natural smell, just ensure you are clean and neat down there.
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Up your oral game: Men have something called a prostate. It’s located two inches up the anus and when it is stimulated, it creates a wave of blissful sensations. You will need a small bullet vibrator and your tongue for this. Your man will love you for it.
It’s all about exploring and trying out new things. Don’t hold back, relax and have fun this weekend.
Feel free to contact me for more fun ideas.
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