It’s been on my mind for a while to do a piece on: “The body.” From the feedback I get, it is safe to assume that a lot of people don’t know their bodies. Don’t get me wrong.
I don’t mean being able to identify parts of the body. I know some people are lacking in this regard though.
I mean knowing how your body works and what makes you tick. Have you ever stood naked before a mirror and appreciated yourself? Whatever your form or shape, know that you are beautiful.
Some of the embarrassment people feel about looking at and touching themselves stems from upbringing and learned beliefs about sexuality. If you don’t know your body, however, how do you guide your partner on how to please you?
Are you aware that there are pleasure points in the body besides the sexual organs? Do you know your pleasure points?
Pleasure points are parts of the body that give pleasure when touched, stroked, kissed or licked as the case may be. The sex organs are the most obvious and popular, but other parts are just as pleasurable when stimulated.
These include the neck, the ears, the back of the ears and the armpit, for some people, it’s the thighs, the back of their legs, the buttocks, in and around the anus, the feet and even the palms. So if you have been feeling sensations in any or all of these areas…. It’s perfectly normal….
If yours is not on this list, it’s okay. There is no right and wrong place and It doesn’t have to be the same for everyone. Each body is different, and a person’s preferences can change with time, types of stimulation, or partner.
If you haven’t discovered your pleasure points, you should. Pleasure shouldn’t be shameful. It is a natural thing.
Discovering and exploring your pleasure points can be done solo or with your partner. It’s a discussion that should be had between partners…about what they enjoy, then mutually explore different types of touch together.
Make this weekend a pleasurable one.
I would love to get feedback, questions and recommendations on the topics you would want me to shed light on.
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